tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1053502736938446365.post8947382073797726633..comments2023-10-31T03:49:14.712-07:00Comments on The Mystery & Minstrel: Musings on God and Life: Would You Tell?---Hot Topic TuesdaySusanne Scheppmannhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05248109632347548570noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1053502736938446365.post-58322512131193563452010-01-01T16:55:03.437-08:002010-01-01T16:55:03.437-08:00This is a difficult decision, and since I've n...This is a difficult decision, and since I've never faced it, I guess I can honestly say I don't know what I WOULD do, but I hope that I would tell her. I would hope that I would find the words and the behaviors to tell her and to help her through it. Another option might be to confront the cheating spouse and encourage him to repent.Crystalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08923005263979539163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1053502736938446365.post-88466318326775514612009-12-15T14:46:26.149-08:002009-12-15T14:46:26.149-08:00I would always tell, yes its going to hurt them an...I would always tell, yes its going to hurt them and they may decide to be upset with you but, as long as you did the honest thing, than thats all that would matter, if shes a true freind she will not go away:)Cape Breton Girl for Godhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11290538093677638612noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1053502736938446365.post-29894160173047889142009-12-15T09:57:15.151-08:002009-12-15T09:57:15.151-08:00Yes, I would tell, simply because I think it is th...Yes, I would tell, simply because I think it is the right thing to do. I too had a cheating husband and wish someone would have told me rather than the way I found out. I'm sorry you lost both friendships Susanne. The humiliation of having been cheated on is hard to handle and takes time to heal from. I'm sure if you tried to get in touch with those women today, they would be very happy Toninoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1053502736938446365.post-9183502793735967382009-12-15T09:45:57.318-08:002009-12-15T09:45:57.318-08:00I would definitely tell. I was in the position o...I would definitely tell. I was in the position of my first husband cheating on me and everyone at church knew but me. I was upset that no one would tell! But it ended and life went on. I have moved out of state since then, but still keep in touch with those friends that were around me at that time!Eagles Wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10311585361184693338noreply@blogger.com